You don't fall in love, you grow in love...If you fallen love, you can fall out of it. We'll let love grow.
Being pursued, while easy, is purposeful. Intentional. Deliberate. It's not about getting a guy's attention--it's a process of ensuring that he's "the one." Of all the men holding glass slippers, he has to be your perfect fit.
Your boyfriend shouldn't be your only friend.